New leads and no time
Ideas:
Belonging to someone/ an object/ another non human but living thing (pet etc)
Modernism: People born after a certain period are all aliens.
The Schizo (like a TV box, changing personality like channels)
The outside alien (ET) is a manifestation of the one inside.
The Jews who as a community believe they are not from here.
{Who am I an alien from? Why did someone alienate me?}
What personal space are you coming from? (V. Imp)
Movies:
My name is Ali, (about two girls, don't remember the name)
Literature:
Eloisa to Abelard- Alexander Pope
The Second Coming- W. B Yeats
The Hollow Men- T.S.Eliot
The Outsider- Colin Wilson
The Stranger/ The Outsider- Albert Camus
The Little Prince- Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Kahlil Gibran (Love Letters)
People:
Martin Heidegger and Hannah Arendt
Henry Miller and Anais Nin
Find such couples that belong to each other but one of them is an outsider// inter caste marriages/ capture their stories.
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Talk with Mrs. Ameeta Shah (psychotherapist/friend's mum)
‘Alienation’ comes from differences> based on curiosity or prejudices (which is problematic alienation)
Q’s I could ask: Do you find yourself excluded (socially by loved ones)? Do you have access to places (roads, buses, and pavement)? (Old people tend to get alienated.) What has helped? Being assertive/ Internet? Any inhibitions and fear of not being accepted.(Children can be more vicious)
Alienated from flow of life> people alienate themselves (shy, superiority, introvert, self-satisfied)
Anxiety about uncertainty + performance/ If I haven’t tried I haven’t failed
Fear of rejection, judgment> stance of superiority> Have to be ready to adjust, compromise= effort and energy> not worth it/ don’t want to take initiative;Social acceptance issue
Hikikomori (Japanese disorder)> in comfort zone, don’t need to get out of their room> Network through websites> pattern setting
Anxious- go to control (OCD, anorexia); perfectionist in standard and expectation
Excess control in one place for lack of control in another> Hidden issues>go to control tangible (diet)
Answers: ET/ look different (physical app.), language, mannerism>>look exactly like a human.
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Mother said: Look up Theory of Mind
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